While at work one day a woman came in my job & told me a story about her life while I assisted her. It went something like this: she had been engaged to her fiancé for about year & they were dating for 4+ years. The wedding was scheduled to be done last month but 2 weeks before the wedding day the worst thing in my opinion that you could imagine happened to this beautiful tall foreign women. Her fiancé told her "give me my ring back, I don't want to get married & I have a girlfriend." When she told me that my eyes instantly watered up. I got goose bumps all of a sudden & I just felt so sorry for this woman. She told me that he gave her large amount of money & he went on about his life. This December she will move back to her country after she gets her degree in school. I did encourage her to stay strong & to keep her head up. Told her that she is a beautiful woman & one day love will come her way again.
You guys already know how I feel about life love & relationships. My thing is this how would you be about to move on mentally if such thing were to happen to you? Well I have never been engaged on the verge of being engaged or anything of that nature. I do however know how it feels to love someone so much that you'd give your last breath to be with them. It was a phase that I went through in life in addition a good experience for me. You live & you learn in life right? Feeling that way about a person can carry such a strong weight & to get shot down by that SAME person is such a horrible feeling. It can make you have a whole different outlook on love and can change the way you navigate in life. Making you sour towards other people that want to be in potential relationships with you.
4 years is a long time to be with someone putting your trust into them, giving all of yourself to that person just all things that you give someone who you love. Then one day for them to just leave is like a massacre. I am sure there are more major things in life to be upset about but for me this is a touchy subject. I don't understand why someone would want to make leaving you so horrible, it is already bad that their deciding to let things go, but to end it with cheating or end it right before a wedding day or end it with getting someone else pregnant is so inconsiderate to me! Its like did you even ever love me? What would cause someone to hurt you that way? I guess this thing called love is truly a gamble.
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