How Much is ENOUGH?

This is is a question I wish I could really get answered?

Once you have gone through being cheated on but you decide to stay in that relationship & you suspect he is still cheating how many clues will you look for before you LEAVE?

In this post I am going to use the names Shawn as the guy & Mary as the woman. Shawn & Mary have been in a relationship for quite some time now, in love with each other & happy as ever... well at least that is how it looks from the outside. One day Shawn decides to give out his number while out grabbing something to eat, to someone woman he met. Days past by in S & M's life, she notices weird things about him now sometimes he takes his phones calls outside, or he will turn his phone off at night, even placed a password lock on his phone. He now wants to hang out with his friends more than usual.

This behavior just seems so rare to Mary, so she asks him if everything alright, trying to communicate with him & receive answers. Of course he says everything is fine I have just been wanting some time to hang out with my boys. SO Mary accepts that & moves on, with a curious mind. Weeks & months pass & she has found out Shawn is sleeping with another woman. Broken hearted Mary comes to work all down & shit fucking up the vibe in the work place & tells her co-worker what is going on, her co-worker has been through the similar bullshit with a man, therefore she totally relates. Mary is so tripped out by now.

Mary is now going through Shawn's phone records via sprint.com daily, she is asking him a million questions about his disloyalty daily, she can't function at work when he is home alone, she is eyeballing every woman he looks at while they are out in public, she is just doing the most about this whole fucked up situation.

But when will women end it? How much do you love yourself to hurt yourself so bad over a man? If you want to stay & he keeps on with the cheating at least make the most of it play the cards your being dealt...